I don't think I posted about this previously, but Reagan gets calls to babysit all the time. Most of the time, she is unavailable (she has quite the busy schedule), but a few times, she has really wanted to go. I - on the other hand - have quite a few fears. One family in particular has a 5 year old, a 3 year old and a baby about 16 months. I just had all of these fears. What if the baby started choking? Would Reagan know what to do? What if someone stopped breathing or swallowed a marble or something? I realize how crazy it is that I was worried about that - no one had me take a class before I started babysitting. I used to babysit my sibs from as far back as I can remember and I know I was 10 when I started babysitting other people's children because my first "job" was to watch the children of my Merrie Miss leader. Ugh - I used to watch entire families of children for whole weekends. I remember my mom coming to pick us up to take us to church. Why I have fears about Reagan and Cole babysitting... I don't know. Maybe I'm just wise enough to know everything that could possibly go wrong? Maybe I know that they haven't watched a lot of babies in the past, so, they haven't grown up doing this??? Maybe I've seen relatives and friends who have had potentially tragic situations while leaving their children in the care of someone who doesn't know enough??? Whatever it was, I would never forgive myself if Reagan or Cole was watching someone else's children and something went horribly wrong. So, I started looking around and found that Primary Children's Hospital offers a "Super Sitter Class". That didn't solve all of my concerns, but it made me feel a bit better.
So, I signed up Reagan and Cole (along with Reagan's bestie Sophia) and they took a half day class back in June. They learned all sorts of things to do and not to do. They did talk about CPR techniques, but there is a separate class just on CPR. I think we will sign up for that one next. The kiddos felt great after the class. They received a book and a bag and a Certificate of Completion.
Well, after that class, we headed to DC, then we were in Europe for a month, then school started back up and we just wrapped up Fall Break. The family that has asked most often actually called while we were at Universal in Florida and asked if Reagan could babysit. I explained that we were out of town until Friday. When we landed in Salt Lake, I had a message on my phone that they needed someone again because both the mom and the dad needed to go somewhere in different directions. They wanted to know if Reagan could babysit from 5:30 - 9:30. Reagan begged to do it. Three kiddos vs Reagan? I suggested she take Cole with her for extra help. She insisted she didn't need that. I convinced her that since it was her first time sitting, she could use an extra set of hands with three kiddos - one being a baby. We double checked with the parents that it would be ok for Cole to come along and they were on board.
The dad texted and pushed back the time to 6, but Reagan and Cole were already waiting by the front door with their bags and toys and coloring books on their arm. They were ready to go! By 6:10, I wondered if perhaps the dad didn't know where we lived. I texted him and he wrote back and said "Oh Sorry - I thought you were bringing them here." What?!? Why would he think that? Maybe that is how his other sitters have worked in the past. Well, apparently, the mom had already left with the minivan and he didn't have enough seats in his car for himself, his children and our children. So, I ran them over there.
I sent Reagan and Cole with my phone in case they needed anything. Then, Steve and I (nervously) sat down to watch a movie. About 2 hours later, Cole called. He was upset that the two older girls wouldn't go to bed. As we were talking on the phone, he would pause and say "Livie - go to bed!" He said "Mom - they won't go to bed - I even counted down from three!" I chuckled and said to offer to read them a story or sing a song if they would get into bed. He also said that the baby had not stopped crying for the entire two hours and that Reagan was stressed. Reagan came over near the phone and said "Mom - I need you here NOW!" I refused and said that they needed to figure this out. I told them how every baby is different - some like you to walk while holding them, others want you to sit and rock, some like you to wrap them in a blanket, others like you to sing. I suggested a few things they might try. After another half hour, we received another call from Cole - he said that he had finally gotten the girls to go to sleep ... in their parents' bed..... with the light on. (Whatever works, right?) He said that the baby was still crying and that now, Reagan was crying. He said "Mom - I've gone through every page of our Super Sitter manual and we have done EVERYTHING! He won't stop crying!!!!" I had to laugh, but didn't want him to hear me. Yep - a manual usually isn't going to cut it. You have to figure it out. I did tell him to take the baby for a while and give Reagan a break. Two and a half hours of a whining, crying baby can grate on anyone's nerves. Then, I told them that the parents should be home within an hour, so, they just had to get through an hour. I suggested putting on music or singing to the baby or even a show that would distract him.
Cole called back a half hour later and said that they had finally gotten the baby to stop crying. I told them that they only had another half hour and that one of the parents would be home. Then, I realized that in order to bring Reagan and Cole home, the parents would have to wake their children to put them in the car to bring my kiddos home. I texted the mom and offered to come and get them. She said her husband would be home before her and she would check with him. 9:30 came and went as did 10. Ugh!!! Steve and I were on pins and needles. We were talking that Reagan and Cole had been awake since 1am Utah time as we had to get up so early in Florida to make our shuttle. They must be exhausted! By 10:15, the mom's minivan pulled into our circle and she dropped off Reagan and Cole.
As we chatted with them, Reagan said "I think I just got frazzled when the baby wouldn't stop crying for his dad. The mom said he does that a lot, even when she is there. I'm glad you didn't come over, Mom. I needed to figure that out." Whew! I was wondering if I had made the right decision just throwing them to the lions.
So, they split the $30 they made for the evening and I'm not sure they will ever babysit again, but if they do...... we have our Super Sitter manual handy :)















































