Reagan and I had been talking about her birthday for several weeks. She was thinking Dora, then maybe a cowgirl party or a Tangled party. We jumped online and came up with several ideas that we quickly narrowed down to a Tea Party. Since we don't drink tea, we improvised with other drinks and since we don't own a teapot, we needed to shop. I found the most darling ribbon at Tai Pan - it was thick ribbon with light green, light blue and white stripes and then blue ribbon made up of a string of light blue daisies - perfect!!!! Our color scheme was set. Luckily, I was able to buy several teapots at Tai Pan as well.
We started planning around Easter time and I found pink and white bonnets, white and pink gloves and pink purses in the dollar bins at Target. Get some little favors to put in the purses and we are set! We decided to use our "not so nice" china, rather than try to buy tea cups and saucers. A friend in our book club - Jan -used to put on tea parties for hire. She retired a few years ago and would not be talked into doing "just one more". Luckily, she graciously offered to let me borrow all of her things and even came to help me prepare the food and put on the party (she really just should have let me hire her to do the party :) It was a lot of work). She had the most darling tea pots, so, I returned all of my Tai Pan ones. We were also able to borrow a couple from our friend Cheryl in the ward.

Reagan invited 14 friends and we had the cutest invitations printed up. Cole was really concerned that he wasn't going to be part of the tea party. In Jan's costume trunk were two "knight" costumes with helmets and breastplates. Cole was thrilled - he declared himself the protector of the princesses and enlisted Stockton to help. It turned out that a couple of girls couldn't make it, so, there was room for Cole and Stockton to join the girls at the table - we wound up with 13 children. We had anticipated going outside, but it was pretty cool and very windy that day, so, we opted to stay inside. We asked the girls to come in their "tea party best". They were all dressed up before they even arrived - so cute!! Next, we let them decorate their purse with their name and put on their bonnet, gloves and all sorts of costumes and accessories that Jan had lent us. We had a big mirror to let them see themselves and Reagan even broke out her makeup for them to use. Once the girls were all dressed up and accessorized, we started the tea party.
Who knew there were so many tea party rules? Jan informed me that you have 3 level stands and that you must start with the bottom level which has scones on it. I asked where I could buy the scones and Jan informed me that you don't
buy scones for a tea party - you
make them. So, she came over the day before and we made strawberry scones and lemon poppyseed scones and a strawberry sweet cream to put on them. We also cut out the bread for the sandwiches. We made hearts, flowers and triangles - so cute! Finally, we made the brownies and the lemon bars and cut all the fixings for the sandwiches.
Once the girls had eaten scones, they ate from the middle level, which had open faced tea sandwiches on them. We made cucumber and cream cheese, strawberry and cream cheese, bacon and tomato, and a yummy peanut butter concoction that was delicious! Finally, the girls hit the top level which contained mint brownies, lemon bars and cupcakes. My dear friend Kathy (whom I adore) was kind enough to make the cupcakes as a present for Reagan. It is too bad that she decided to close up her cupcakery because people were RAVING about these cupcakes. She made mini ones for the girls and regular sized ones for the adults. Best of all, she matched my ribbon and had adorable fondant daisies on the cupcakes. YUM!
Oh - and we also served three types of "tea": hot cocoa, mint julep, and a cambric tea which had gingerbread flavoring. It was so good! Jan was so kind to tell the girls about some of the etiquette associated with tea parties and the girls just loved it. I put ribbons around each of the chairs and on the serving trays. I found blue and green daisy place mats and we had blue, green and white balloons everywhere. I left my Easter decorations on the chandeliers as they were pastel colored, metal balls with daisies on them. It was all adorable!

We put a candle in a cupcake and sang to Reagan. After the girls were done eating, we opened presents and then they played. They went downstairs to Reagan and Cole's rooms, they went outside in the yard and they jumped on the trampoline. Reagan had a blast and so did we. It was definitely our most "labor intensive" party yet, but it was great. Shannon and Rachel helped out so much - I couldn't have done it without them. As a favor (in addition to the hats, gloves and purses), I ordered little ceramic tea sets for the girls to take home - they were super cute.
My parents came by during the party and Steve's parents came over later. What a fun party and what a great day! Reagan had a wonderful time and so did we.
A big shout out of thanks to everyone who helped with this party - Stacey for helping me decorate, Jenn for culinary support, Kathy for the amazing cupcakes, Shannon for helping prepare and serve, Rachel for making the favor tea sets look so darling and for help cleaning up, Jan for letting me borrow all of her gear and for helping me learn to put on a tea party and Steve for, well, doing everything! It was a lot of work, but it was a fabulous tea party!